Fairness in Life: A Myth or a Balance?

Is life ever truly fair? Some are born into privilege, while others start with illness or hardship. Can fairness be measured? It’s tempting to think life balances itself—that unfair moments will eventually be offset by fairness. But does life really work that way? Sadly, it doesn’t seem so. Fairness isn't a simple equation where everything evens out.

Unfairness touches every part of life—at work, at home, and in society. In the workplace, colleagues are often rewarded for less effort. At home, family dynamics can feel uneven—one sibling shouldering more, or one spouse giving more than the other. And on a global scale, inequality is glaring, from wealth distribution to access to basic rights.

The key isn’t in avoiding unfairness—it’s learning how to manage it. Accepting that unfair moments will happen allows us to focus on what we can control: our effort, our reactions, and our values. At work, this means directing our energy toward what matters to us. At home, it often requires open communication and, at times, acceptance.

On a broader scale, while we can’t control everything, we can stand for fairness when possible. But some things—like fate or accidents—are simply beyond anyone's reach. In the end, life isn’t about ensuring fairness; it’s about how we respond when faced with its absence.